|9 Simple Ways To Deal With A Friend Who Is Ignoring You|
Ignorance is like a double-edged sword. You may ignore people and keep many problems at bay; however, you may also lose great relationships and friendships. It feels worse when youíre at the receiving end of ignorance. How to combat this feeling? Well, instead of being all tit-for-tat, try dealing with it by other better ways.
Recall all your actions. Think about all the things you said to them. There would be something which they took offense about. If itís clear, you know what the problem is and can approach them to apologise.
If someone is not receiving your calls, or has blocked you on their social media accounts then try getting in touch via mails or an SMS. If youíve no clue why youíre being ignored, then youíve every right to spam them and ask what the matter is. Avoid being creepy while doing so.
Okay, if things don't work out even after spamming them and calling innumerable times, wait for some time. The Ďwaitingí sucks but thereís nothing you can do, since the other person isnít reciprocating. Let time pass, maybe theyíll get back in touch.
Donít show signs of shock or surprise while asking them about their whereabouts. Be cool and start a conversation you would normally start when you were friends. Donít show your anger. Replace it with politeness.
If and only if the person truly knows you and the other person, should you ask them to step in. Ask them to play the messenger and tell them how bad you feel about being ignored by them.
Even if itís not your mistake, do so to save the relationship. Your ego isn't that important - your relationship is.
Try not to think about it because it makes you feel sad. Itís not like youíre not trying to reconcile. But if things arenít working, that shouldnít affect your life.
Try to get their attention by hanging out with new friends and post pictures on social media. They might get jealous and try to contact you. And when they do, do not ignore them.
When all of the above fails, itís time to go the Ďtit-for tatí way. You canít be too nice and keep trying to get in touch with a person who doesnít care. Itís better that your life moves on without people who want to make you feel bad all the time. You donít deserve that.
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