A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"The teacher said, "in order to answer
your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back o pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he
wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize
that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed
the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but
when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."
*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and
choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them
only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the
previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one
medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that
is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get....
this is marriage."