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The Buddha explained how to handle insult and maintain compassion.

One day Buddha was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have no right teaching others," he shouted. "You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but a fake."

Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young man "Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it, to whom does the gift belong?"

The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, "It would belong to me, because I bought the gift."

The Buddha smiled and said, "That is correct. And it is exactly the same with your anger.

If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you.

You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself."

"If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger and become loving instead. When you hate others, you yourself become unhappy. But when you love others, everyone is happy."

The young man listened closely to these wise words of the Buddha. "You are right, o Enlightened One, "he said. "Please teach me the path of love. I wish to become your follower."

The Buddha answered kindly, "Of course. I teach anyone who truly wants to learn. Come with me."


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Posted by GB, on 03-01-2010 13:53, , Guest
I am glad to read that I probably just handled a horribly insulting email from another woman-neighbor and so-called friend. Her outrageous insults and toxic hate are her problems. I have no use for her anyway. I did not respond/react to her in any way. I stayed at peace with the situation.
 

Posted by Linn Htut, on 09-07-2009 21:28, , Guest
Could we term it "Patience"? That's a virtual property of mind. All of us can stay away from "Regret" and "Remorse" in future by upholding PATIENCE in our inner mind. Thanks for reading.
 

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